You can't deny sound measurements. So, if your numbers aren't where you want them, don't get mad, get even. Work harder and work smarter toward your goals!
I have some blog posts about goals; Goals, Baby Steps and Goals that can get you started. Goals are great to give you positives to focus on and a starting point in life to get what you want and work hard to get it.
And, YES! This feeling really does suck!